THE NORTH SHORE NEWS - August 9th 1973

Roxboro United Church plays host

Japanese, Guyanese, Canadians
meet in "rap" session

  It was called an "inter- exchange exchange" when young people from Japan, Guyana and the North Shore met last Saturday at Roxboro United Church for a general "rap" session. Over thirty young people from the three countries met when the organizers of two exchange programs got together.

Frank Quinn of the Roxboro Lions Club and Bob Vokey of the North Shore Youth Services got together with the idea of bringing their visitors together for an informal session. Mr. Quinn was coordinating a visit by several Japanese students to the North Shore area while the North Shore Youth Services were hosting the Guyanese young people.

  According to Mr. Vokey, after an initial period of shyness, the young people soon overcame all communication barriers and began discussing a wide range of subjects.

The Guyanese students presently visiting Montreal are returning the visit of several youth from the North Shore who travelled to Guyana last month. The. Japanese, numbering about twenty, were part of a long exchange program, involving several hundred students, which is based in Toronto.

Yasuko Nehida (third from left) of Osaka, Japan shows her amusement as Bob Vokey (third from right) of the North Shore Youth Services makes his point. Looking on are (1-r) Gary Maavara (N.S.Y.S.), Milhiyo Kayamihara (Osaka), Elloulse Bonnell (North Shore), .Howard Hinds (Guyana) and Donna Robinson (North Shore). The young people met at .Roxboro United Church last weekend when two visiting groups from Japan and Guyana got ,together. Trans-Can Photo

  John Salvis of the North Shore Youth Services sat in on one of the discussions and told how the gathering went.

"When the thing began, there were groups of people in twos or threes sitting around the hall. Then people began mixing and introducing each other. They then found common grounds to talk on and were soon in two large groups," explained Mr. Salvis.

The N.S.Y.S. coordinator said the meeting was a good example of people getting together without bias or prejudice colouring their attitudes towards each other.

"The only things these young people had in common were their youth and their smiles," Mr. Salvis said.

Mr. Vokey was particularly surprised at the ability of the young people to communicate despite limited English on the part of the Japanese students and the broad West Indian accents of the Guyanese. Some of the young people went as far as drawing diagrams to explain their points when the language barrier became. too much.

WOMEN'S STATUS

  Some of the subjects discussed by the visitors and hosts were common interests such as music, films, and sports. One subject which Mr. Vokey found particularly enlightening was that on the status of women in the different countries. Two Japanese girls told the gathering that Japanese women tend to marry at a relatively older age - around twenty-four - and that the women never continue their working careers after marrying.

On the other hand, the Guyanese pointed out that their women marry at quite a young age - sometimes as early as fifteen or sixteen - and have quite a low status in comparison with Canadian women. Mr. Vokey told of one incident which brought home this point. He was at home with his visitor and began washing the dishes. His guest swore it was the first time he had ever seen a man doing such work.

When told that many Canadian women work after marriage and often while raising a family, the Japanese girls reacted with equal surprise.

Mr. Vokey explained that all of the Japanese young people Were college students while most of the Guyanese are working to support them- selves - a factor which naturally left some wide differences in the experiences of the young people.

Standards of living and relative states of affluence were not major points of, discussion.

One point which the Japanese found very striking,, was the ability of the Canadians in general to make use of their leisure time in very diversified ways - an ability the Japanese people have not yet developed.

When the topic of discussion came around to sports, the Japanese seemed involved with their ancient arts of judo and karate and the American game of baseball, while the Guyanese young people took more interest in the British sports such as soccer and cricket.

PERSONAL CONTACT

  In summing up the meeting, Mr. Salvis said, in his opinion, there are two ways of getting peoples of the world together. It can he done at a high level in the form of diplomacy where, according to Mr. Salvis, the people of the country are very often uninvolved. The second way is through face-to-face meetings of the people of the various nations. In Mr. Salvis' view the person-to-person contact is far superior.

"In this day and age with the jet airplane, it is becoming increasingly easy for people to travel to other countries and the best way to get to know the people of the country you are visiting is to sit down and talk," said Mr. Salvis.

Both Messrs. Salvis and Vokey were impressed with the smoothness with which the meeting game off considering the very short notice given to the parties involved.

Japanese visitors to the North Shore found not only hospitality but in one case a translator as well. Hosts Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Tanaka and son Peter, of Plerrefonds (right) met Tamac Kimura and Keiko Okamoto (left) when they arrived on the North Shore and Mrs' Tanaka acted as interpreter for the girls and their 18 fellow students when the language barrier was too great. Trans-Can Photo

  The Guyanese students will be up north at Camp Kanawana and will take part in a special reception at the Sheraton Mt. Royal- hotel where they will meet the Guyanese Prime Minister who is presently in Canada for the Commonwealth Prime Ministers' Conference.

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